Nikah Awal
Sunday, February 10, 2013 // Sunday, February 10, 2013
Hello guys and assalamualaikum :) It is raining outside and I am really bored. Idk why suddenly the thought of nikah appear in my mind. Do I sound quite gatal - no I guess ? Hehe, so I'm thinking about nikah awal right now. This is one of the hadith about nikah awal or marriage.
“Barang siapa di antara remaja berkahwin dalam usia muda ,maka menangislah syaitan . Dan ia (syaitan) mengeluh, “Aduh celaka aku, agamanya telah dipelihara dari godaanku .” HR. Ibnu ‘Addi.
See, the devil will cry only by seeing the teens nikah awal ! Haaa, that prove us that we should nikah awal. There are many useful of nikah awal, and one of it is we can prevent from intimacy. At the young age, I admit that teenagers are kinda horny - lol. We're tend to do many sins and I'm afraid that one of it is ZINA. So, to avoid it maybe by nikah awal because only by marrying, you can get a halal relationship, no more haram, devil cried, Allah will bless you, he/she is all yours and you can do whatever you want. I mean, anything...
For an example, married during you're studying - I mean in a college or university. You can live in a same house with your mate - only two of you. He/she can wakes you up and making breakfast/lunch/dinner for you. He You can go the kuliah with your mate and the best part is when you're in the same class - he/she can teach you or doing the assignments with you till midnight. If you're tired, he/she can help to bring your books or stuff. You have someone that can protect and care about you. How sweet of that right ?
But, what about the cons? What if you can't focus during a lesson because you keep watching him/her in the class? Or maybe, you're jealous seeing your mate with someone else, until you put a fight with him/her - I mean you're over-protective. Someone jealous with you guys and he/she makes a fitnah about you guys until you guys fight each other and booommm, divorce? You get pregnant at a young age, what do you feel ? Or maybe, as a husband, you will be stress because of your newborn baby keep crying in the middle of night while you're making your assignment? Ever think about it?
Ever think that nikah awal will block your freedom? You must throw away all your bad attitude. I mean like, if you're a kaki lepak then you go hang out with your friends like you always did and your wife/husband is like 'okay, you can go'. Actually, they are damn worried. Hehe, me too will be jealous. Aya ayaa. If only you ask your mate to hang out together, that will be such a sweet thing. Same like, kaki clubbing or mat rempit. Perhaps you should say goodbye to them. For girls, you should know how to cook, wash and etc etc etc, if you don't want your husband find a new mate for you - second wife. Change the bad ones to good ones. No more wake up late, flirting around with boys and etc.
CINTA itu ibarat penyakit bagi dua insan iaitu antara LELAKI dan WANITA dan PERKAHWINANlah ubatnya
Nikah awal is a good thing but think of it wisely. Marriage is not something that can be made to play, it is a serious thing - not a joke. Marriage needs commitment - a really big one. As a teenager, I do dreaming of nikah awal, to be with him in a halal relationship. But, yeah a big but, I think I'm not ready yet. And now, I do understand why people tend to marry around 27 above because they still want to enjoy and have fun with their life - so do me right now. Will be waiting for ten more years to be with someone, hihi :p
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Nikah Awal
Sunday, February 10, 2013 // Sunday, February 10, 2013
Hello guys and assalamualaikum :) It is raining outside and I am really bored. Idk why suddenly the thought of nikah appear in my mind. Do I sound quite gatal - no I guess ? Hehe, so I'm thinking about nikah awal right now. This is one of the hadith about nikah awal or marriage.
“Barang siapa di antara remaja berkahwin dalam usia muda ,maka menangislah syaitan . Dan ia (syaitan) mengeluh, “Aduh celaka aku, agamanya telah dipelihara dari godaanku .” HR. Ibnu ‘Addi.
See, the devil will cry only by seeing the teens nikah awal ! Haaa, that prove us that we should nikah awal. There are many useful of nikah awal, and one of it is we can prevent from intimacy. At the young age, I admit that teenagers are kinda horny - lol. We're tend to do many sins and I'm afraid that one of it is ZINA. So, to avoid it maybe by nikah awal because only by marrying, you can get a halal relationship, no more haram, devil cried, Allah will bless you, he/she is all yours and you can do whatever you want. I mean, anything...
For an example, married during you're studying - I mean in a college or university. You can live in a same house with your mate - only two of you. He/she can wakes you up and making breakfast/lunch/dinner for you. He You can go the kuliah with your mate and the best part is when you're in the same class - he/she can teach you or doing the assignments with you till midnight. If you're tired, he/she can help to bring your books or stuff. You have someone that can protect and care about you. How sweet of that right ?
But, what about the cons? What if you can't focus during a lesson because you keep watching him/her in the class? Or maybe, you're jealous seeing your mate with someone else, until you put a fight with him/her - I mean you're over-protective. Someone jealous with you guys and he/she makes a fitnah about you guys until you guys fight each other and booommm, divorce? You get pregnant at a young age, what do you feel ? Or maybe, as a husband, you will be stress because of your newborn baby keep crying in the middle of night while you're making your assignment? Ever think about it?
Ever think that nikah awal will block your freedom? You must throw away all your bad attitude. I mean like, if you're a kaki lepak then you go hang out with your friends like you always did and your wife/husband is like 'okay, you can go'. Actually, they are damn worried. Hehe, me too will be jealous. Aya ayaa. If only you ask your mate to hang out together, that will be such a sweet thing. Same like, kaki clubbing or mat rempit. Perhaps you should say goodbye to them. For girls, you should know how to cook, wash and etc etc etc, if you don't want your husband find a new mate for you - second wife. Change the bad ones to good ones. No more wake up late, flirting around with boys and etc.
CINTA itu ibarat penyakit bagi dua insan iaitu antara LELAKI dan WANITA dan PERKAHWINANlah ubatnya
Nikah awal is a good thing but think of it wisely. Marriage is not something that can be made to play, it is a serious thing - not a joke. Marriage needs commitment - a really big one. As a teenager, I do dreaming of nikah awal, to be with him in a halal relationship. But, yeah a big but, I think I'm not ready yet. And now, I do understand why people tend to marry around 27 above because they still want to enjoy and have fun with their life - so do me right now. Will be waiting for ten more years to be with someone, hihi :p
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Okay, aku dah 20 - pls calon takde lagi. UiTM student yang amat berdedikasi. No joke. Aku banyak melibatkan diri dengan aktiviti UiTM sebab tu je cara nak short getaway kan. Aku duduk Felda, fahamkan lah diri anda. Dulu aku sangat berminat untuk menulis, sekarang telah diganti dengan minat photography. Masih lagi amateur, dan masih mencuba. Dan yea, aku ada ambition. Tinggi jugalah. Harap aku boleh capai ambition nak jadi entomologist. Course? Kesihatan Persekitaran. Aku tak tahu lah ada ke orang baca ni huhi sebab aku malas nak zebarkan blog ni.
Tolong bayangkan hang baca blog aku dengan lagu Cake By The Ocean-DNCE atau No More-Sonaone, baru syok sikit
